USPEH = postaviti I dostici ciljeve

 

 

1.       Tvoji  ciljevi moraju biti LICNI.

Sta TI zaista zelis da postignes? Koji su TVOJI snovi? Sta TI zelis od zivota? Ne sta drugi hoce da ti zelis.

 

2.       Tvoji ciljevi NEsmeju da budu KONTRADIKTORNI sa oslalim ciljevima.

Ciljevi moraju biti u skladu sa ostalim ciljevima I realnoscu. Ako postavis nerealne ciljeve realno je ocekivati da neces uspeti.

 

3.       Tvoji ciljevi moraju biti PRECIZNI.

Tako das u merljivi I da mozes da vidis da li I koliko napredujes. Ako vidis da ne napredujes, to ce ti pomoci da promenis plan kako bi ipak ostao na pravom putu do uspeha. Primera radi, hocu da procitam dve knjige nedeljno, da odem tri puta nedeljno u teretanu.

 

4.       Tvo ji ciljevi moraju biti POZITIVNI.

Ako nesvene misli pomazu onda ce ti pozitivne misli pomoci da stignes do cilja, kao sto bi te negativne udaljile. Umesto da kazes: ja necu da padnem na ispitu, reci ja hocu da polozim.

 

5.       Tvoji ciljevi moraju da budu AMBICIOZNI, ali DOKUCIVI.

 “Ako krenes do meseca I neuspes, dospeces do zveza”. Ni to nije tako lose, zar ne?

 

6.       Tvoji ciljevi moraju da budu u SADASNJEM VREMENU.

Sta je bilo bilo je. Sta ce biti, bice. Tvoje je da sada uradis sve sto je do tebe.

 

7.       Tvoji ciljevi moraju biti jasno definisani I ZAPISANI.

I nezaboravljeni u donjoj polici ispod gomile papira.

 

8.       Tvoji ciljevi moraju da budu povezani za prakticnim RADOM.

Svaki cilj razclani, razbi u manje, lakse korake. Idi samo jedan po jedan korak. Svako putovanje zapocinje sa jednim korakom, I ako su lagani, neces ni osetiti kad stignes do cilja.

 

 

Kako ti uspevas da postignes ono sto zelis? Sta/ko ti pomaze/odmaze da uspes? Zasto mislis da tako puno ljudi neuspeva da uradi ono sto zeli (prestane da pusi, pocne da se bavi sportom, nadje posao, poboljsa ocene u skoli)?

 

Achieving SUCCESS = setting and achieving GOALS

 

1.       Your goals must be PERSONAL.

What do YOU really want to accomplish? What is it that YOU desire? What do YOU desire for your life? Not what someone else wants you to desire.

 

2.        Your goals MUST NOT CONTRADICT any of your other goals.

Your goals must coincide in what is realistically possible. Setting unrealistic goals is setting realistic failure.

 

3.        You goals must be SPECIFIC.

Develop goals that are measurable; ones that can be reported and charted over time. Here’s an example: “I read two books a month that are non-school related.”

 

4.        Your goals must be POSITIVE.

Positive goals help your subconscious carry out the goals stated. Rather than saying, “I will NOT fail this test” say “I will pass the test”

 

5.        Your goals must be set HIGH, but reachable.

There’s a famous quote that says, “If you shoot for the moon and miss, you will still land amongst the stars.”  Set your goals really high, so that it forces you and stretches you to do better.

 

6.        Your goals must be PRESENT-TENSE.

Set goals in the present tense.

 

7.        Your goals must be clearly WRITTEN.

Using the notes above, make sure you specify your goals on paper. Write them down legibly.

 

8.        Your goals must be connected with practical ACTION.

For every goal you set, identify some practical, specific actions that you can do everyday to help you obtain that goal.

 

How do you achieve success? What do you find helpful and what not? Why do you think so many people fail to acomplish what they really want (like stop smoking, start exercising, get better job, get better grades)?